After Rebirth, the Buddha-like Star Is a Medical Expert Chapter 133

Chapter 133 The best mom in the world

Ning Youguang came out of the kitchen with Ming Jinxin.

When the two came out, they saw Zhou Tang entering the door.

White T black shorts, dressed in a very simple and casual outfit, and also held two bottles of wine, one red and one white.

"It's just a light meal, why did you bring seafood and wine?" Ming Jinxin smiled when he saw him.

Speaking of which, Zhou Tang is a few years older than her son.

But it may be because he is in the entertainment industry, and his daily clothes are young and fashionable, so that every time she sees him, she always feels younger than her own son, and she can't help taking more care of him.

"How can you eat a big meal without wine?" He secretly brought up these two bottles of wine while Xiaoqian was squatting in the pit.

When Zhou Tang approached, several people in the room found that his hair was wet, his skin was still covered with a thin layer of water vapor, and he was scented.

I don't know if it was the scent of the bath left from the shower or the perfume he sprayed on purpose.

When everyone is here, we can start dinner.

At the dinner table, Ming Jinxin asked Ning Youyu: "Do you want to drink soup before or after dinner?"

"I want to drink soup while eating." Ning Youyu thought for a while and replied.

Ming Jinxin looked at his younger son's serious face and smiled: "Okay, then I'll pack the soup for you, you can drink it if you want."

Ning Youyu nodded happily: "Okay, thank you mom."

Seeing him so happy, Ming Jin felt a deep sigh of relief in his heart.

Fortunately, I listened carefully to my daughter's analysis and immediately corrected the way I got along with my younger son.

After filling Ning Youyu with the soup, she gratefully looked at Ning Youguang next to her, and gave her a prawn.

"Thank you, Auntie." Ning Youguang secretly gave her a thumbs up and gave her a like.

With the double recognition of his son and daughter, Ming Jinxin was even happier, so he told Ning Youyu: "Xiaoyu, you have a good meal today, and your mother and sister will take you to the zoo next week."

Ning Youyu was stunned.

After reacting, he jumped up from his seat happily and hugged Ming Jinxin, "Mom, you are the best mother in the world."

The soft and waxy voice is full of joy and love.

Ming Jinxin was moved to the point of choking in his throat.

She has never seen her little son so satisfied and happy, holding her is like owning the whole world.

In the past, no matter how many limited editions she bought him, no matter how delicious food she took him.

But today, she witnessed it.

Witnessed the deep joy when the younger son was completely satisfied.

She finally understood why her daughter would say that for a child, it is more important to simply satisfy him than to give him a better material, life, etc. of worldly standards.

Fortunately…

The pure love between Ming Jinxin's mother and son not only made them feel very happy and happy, but also infected the people around them.

Ming Dynasty and Zhao Sui unconsciously set their sights on Ning Youguang.

Zhao Sui's eyes are full of novelty and exploration.

Ming Dynasty's eyes were filled with joy and gratitude.

They had heard the two siblings chatting on the sofa the whole time before.

Although Ning Youyu consciously whispered to his sister, his voice was not small.

Zhao Sui and Ming Chao paid a little attention and listened to the chat between the two of them.

Ming Jinxin's change in attitude towards his youngest son is clear at a glance.

Zhou Tang came later, and he didn't hear the conversation between the Ning brothers and sisters before, but this did not prevent him from being moved by the pure love between Ming Jinxin and Ning Xiaoyu.

Ning Yi also had a deep smile on his face.

backhanded, gave Ming Jinxin a chopstick dish.

Ming Jinxin smiled and ate all the dishes from her husband, and asked Ning Youguang with an attitude of wanting to learn: "Can you tell me why you think meeting the needs of children is more important than everything else? "

"There is a white professor in the Department of Psychology at the University of Washington who has studied the self all his life. He once put forward a point of view, which I agree with. He believes that a person's self-esteem comes from two main aspects: one is 'love', and the other is 'Achievement'. If a child experiences a lot of love and understanding in his early life with his parents, then the child will see a lovely and valuable self in the eyes of his parents, and this sense of value is only about 'I am a worthy being The fact that you love someone'. After that, the child will slowly internalize this understanding and form a positive understanding of himself."

"The other way around?" Ming Jinxin.

"On the contrary, parents don't care about their children's inner needs, and they have to forcefully arrange everything for their children according to their own will, then the children will experience a deep sense of flaws, and they will feel that they are born inferior. If you are not worthy of being loved, of course you will not see your own value as a 'natural person'. How can a person who feels that he is not worthy of being loved from the bottom of his heart, how can he have inner self-confidence?"

Ning Youguang's words made everyone present enter a state of deep thought.

Zhou Tang thought for a while, and then asked: "I also found that many people who were not treated by their parents in the early years seemed to be quite confident when they grew up, at least they looked like this. What is the reason for this?"

Ning Youguang replied: "This involves our sense of value as a 'social person', which mainly comes from our recognition of our own abilities and achievements. That is to say, even if we did not feel unconditional from our parents when we were young but I see my abilities and the results I have achieved, and I also experience a sense of value. For example, I have good academic performance, such as I can earn a lot of money, such as my high social status... A person who believes in his ability , in his area of expertise, he is naturally confident. However, deep down in his heart, he may still have a sense of lack. The lack and dissatisfaction of that kind of love is just hidden by him so deeply that it is difficult for outsiders to see. Of course, everyone knows I hope that I can have both, that I have been loved well, or loved, but also have my own abilities and achievements. This state can truly enable a person to reach the realm of fullness and harmony, to the realm of accepting oneself and accepting the world. The truest self-confidence."

Zhao Sui also asked, "Aren't many parents worried about spoiling their children now? A child who fully accepts and understands, meets the needs of the child, isn't it spoiling the child?"

Ning Youguang shook his head, "Doting is not love, doting is hurt."

Zhao Sui sighed, "Then the scale is too difficult to grasp."

Ning Youguang smiled, "So having a child is something that requires careful consideration, especially educating a child. However, destiny has its own arrangement, and everything needs to be viewed from a positive and multi-angle perspective."

After listening to the first half of her sentence, everyone felt nervous, but after the second half of the sentence, their hearts relaxed again.

Ming Jinxin looked at Ning Youguang, and seemed to sigh, like to sigh, "I will definitely be a very good mother in the future."

At this moment, Ning Youyu, who was eating in peace, suddenly gave Ning Youguang a thumbs up and nodded heavily, "Sister is the best sister in the world, and she must be the best mother in the world."

His childish words made all the adults present laugh.

Ning Youguang asked back with a smile, "Why does Xiaoyu say that elder sister is the best elder sister in the world?"

Ning Youyu replied loudly, "Because my elder sister takes good care of me and always accompanies me."

Everyone laughed.

After laughing, Ning Youguang said to Ming Jinxin, "If I have a child in the future, I will definitely be able to educate him well."

This is her confidence in her ability and wisdom, but the premise is that she has children.

Ming Jinxin did not hear the deep meaning of her words, but suggested following her words, "If you get married in the future, you must have more children, and you must be very lucky to have children who come to your side. children."

As soon as she said this, there was a moment of silence in the scene.

Ning Youguang smiled, but did not speak.

Ning Yi, according to her habitual thinking, thinks that her daughter's silence is because she doesn't like being "born."

So he said, "Some are still young, don't worry about these issues."

In fact, the people present were really afraid of being provoked, and it was three other adult men who were urged to marry.

"Yeah yeah."

After eating, Ning Youguang sat with his family and planned to drive back to school.

Seeing that she was leaving, Zhou Tang immediately stood up: "There is light, I will send you off."

As soon as he said these words, Ning Yi, the deep gaze of the Ming Dynasty fell on him.

He smiled shyly and added, "My driver is waiting downstairs. I'm just going to do errands there. It's very convenient to stop by."

When he said this, he touched the tip of his nose.

Ning Youguang refused with a smile, "It's more convenient for me to drive by myself, so I don't need you to send it, Brother Zhou, thank you for your ticket."

"Will you come to my concert?" When Zhou Tang looked at Ning Youguang seriously, his eyes were dark and deep, with a charming color.

In the end, he is a handsome and extraordinary male star with a pair of peach blossom eyes. When he looks at people seriously, he easily has the magic power that people will fall into it if they are not careful.

No wonder those girls on the Internet call Zhou Tang's husband every day.

Ning Youguang sighed with emotion, then sighed with a smile, "I am so fortunate to receive the concert tickets presented by Tangtang personally. Wouldn't it be a pity not to go?"

"Tangtang" is the nickname given to him by Zhou Tang fans.

In fact, she is not a fan of Zhou Tang and rarely listens to pop music.

But, she knew someone liked it.

The face in front of me, every detail is full of slenderness, softness, and sophistication... The eyes are like autumn waters, and the lips and nose are beautiful. How can I describe it too much.

How can a girl grow so good-looking, so that every place is stepping on his aesthetic point...

Zhou Tang's two thick eyebrows rippled softly.

"Okay, I'll wait for you." 1314

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