The thoughts in Xiao Tutu's head now give Li Duoyu a headache. What he fears most is that this little guy has thought that his family is rich since he was a child.
If you don't want to struggle for anything and still feel that you are very powerful, you will have a headache if you become a second-generation cheater in the future.
In his previous life, Li Duoyu especially liked to watch the rich and powerful second generations cheating his father, and he didn't want to be cheated by his own son.
What is this thing called?
Li Duoyu was helpless. In his previous life, Zhou Xiaoying was able to educate his children so well even when he was not around.
Why is it that in this life he has been helpful and his family is happy, but his children are more difficult to teach?
Li Duoyu frowned and thought to himself: "Is it my problem?"
When he thought of this, Li Duoyu became very depressed and couldn't even sleep well.
When he went to bed at night, Li Duoyu patted Zhou Xiaoying on the shoulder who was sleeping on his back. The other party said with slight disgust: "Stop making trouble and go to bed quickly. We have to get up early tomorrow."
Li Duoyu was a little speechless. Who does his wife think of him? Why does he always think that way?
Besides, after working for so long yesterday, my lumbar muscles were almost strained. How could I still continue to fight?
"No, don't rush to sleep. I have something I want to discuss with you. Do you feel that our little Tutu is getting skinnier recently? It will definitely not work if this continues. We have to find a way."
After hearing this, Zhou Xiaoying suddenly turned around: "Actually, I wanted to tell you about this half a year ago, but first, tell me, who do you think this child's personality is like?"
Li Duoyu thought about it for a while and laughed awkwardly: "You brought it all, I should be more like you."
Zhou Xiaoying rolled her eyes: "Fart, how could I be so naughty when I was a child? I'm obviously the same as you when you were a child."
"Teacher Zhou, don't get excited, please pay attention to your image and don't say bad words, okay? Isn't that right? Was I so offensive when I was a child?"
Zhou Xiaoying was speechless: "Little Tutu is much cuter than you, okay? When you were a kid, even the wild dogs on the roadside had to run away when they saw you, okay? Why don't you just ask your neighbors about their water supply?" Have you ever blown up a tank? You also threw things into the well and bullied me all day long. You even put your smelly feet on my face when I was sleeping. "
"Stop, stop, stop, I've forgotten what you said."
"Have you forgotten? Then let me help you recall your memories. You will definitely not forget the fact that I helped you write a love letter."
"I have forgotten all about it a long time ago. The love letter was written to you. I am shouting here and there to get your attention."
"I haven't gotten married yet. Are you waiting for your old horse to turn around?"
Li Duoyu is so big-headed, why is it related to love letters again? He has been jealous for so many years, can't this matter be turned over?
It seems that I have to find time to find a way to introduce a partner to Chen Ziyi and let her get married as soon as possible.
Zhou Xiaoying suddenly returned to the topic: "Actually, I also teach Xiao Tutu very hard, but I am a teacher, and I know very well that the environment in which he grows up has the greatest impact on him.
You always buy him gifts, which makes him not appreciate them at all. And since he is still so young, almost everyone in the village gives in to him and praises him fiercely when they see him.
Uncle Pan's dog almost broke its legs just because he barked at him. People often feed him food when he goes out.
His parents doted on him very much. No one in the whole village even dared to speak ill of him, so only the two of us dared to beat him.
Apart from being afraid of us, he is not afraid of anyone else at all. He seems to have become more sensible recently and has begun to understand that his father is very rich.
I have taught many students, and I have a fairly good understanding of children's personalities, but little Tutu is the most difficult to teach, because the entire growing environment is accommodating to him.
And Xiao Tutu is not the kind of child who is calm, so I don't know what to do.
He looks young at the age of three, and he looks old at the age of seven. Now little Tutu is three years old. As his mother, all I can do is try my best to guide the child in the best direction.
I don't ask him to do well in school in the future, I just hope he will be smarter and not bully others just because his father is rich and become a bad boy in the eyes of others. "
Li Duoyu thought that Zhou Xiaoying was busy studying, but she didn't expect that she would think so much and be so concerned about Xiao Tutu.
After Li Duoyu listened, he was silent for a long time. After he got rich, he finally understood the meaning of the saying "You can't get rich for more than three generations."
And why do rich people's families always like to have weird and trouble-making rich second generations?
He grew up in an environment where everyone gave in to him, even if he and Zhou Xiaoying didn't spoil their children.
Doesn't mean others won't.
Li Duoyu smiled and said: "How about we learn from Meng's mother who moved little Tutu to Rongcheng to study and live. If we change to a new environment, maybe things will change."
Zhou Xiaoying glared, gritted her teeth and said, "Do you think we, mother and son, are too annoying and you want us to leave quickly?"
Li Duoyu's mouth opened wide, and he suddenly felt a little desperate. Yesterday, he was full of fighting power from below, and today's Teacher Zhou was full of firepower from above.
Li Duoyu discovered that not only Xiao Tutu's personality in this life was completely different from his previous life, but his wife also seemed to have changed.
When Li Duoyu came back from his previous life, Zhou Xiaoying felt more like a gentle middle-aged woman, very reasonable, which was completely different from now.
Nowadays, if you say one or two words, it is easy to explode, and you are also very sensitive. Is it possible that you are used to it?
Zhou Xiaoying continued: "Actually, it was not good for Meng's mother to move three times. She only emphasized the importance of the environment to the children, but did not consider the children's feelings at all.
Every time the environment changes, the pressure on the child is huge, and no one can guarantee that he will definitely get better in the new environment. "
Li Duoyu felt that what Teacher Zhou said was really reasonable: "Then, let's take care of the character first, and put the other things aside first. If you dare to cheat others, or bully others, we will directly deal with it." United Doubles.”
Zhou Xiaoying nodded and said: "Yes, I agree with this. People do not necessarily have to be successful, but they must be kind and have correct views."
"Like me, right?"
Zhou Xiaoying couldn't help but twist his waist: "When our little Tutu grows up, it will be over if he looks like you."
"Why are you **** me? Where can I find someone as popular and professional as me? Why are you **** me?"
"It's just because you're unhappy."
"The problem is fine. Why are you upset with me?"
"You hurt me yesterday."
After hearing this, Li Duoyu became inexplicably proud, and the man's self-esteem instantly swelled: "Aren't you awesome? Let's see if you dare to say that I can't do it."
"That's because you're being too rude, okay?"
"Nonsense. He is obviously very powerful. Who said there are only exhausted cows and ruined fields?"
Zhou Xiaoying was speechless at his scream: "When a man reaches a certain age, he only has one mouth left. After so many years, you can only use it once or twice."
Li Duoyu was startled for a moment. According to Zhou Xiaoying's IQ, she couldn't be "saving the country through curves". She was the one who started this topic today.
But she probably hasn't reached that wolf-like age yet. Is it possible that the medicine is really effective?
Does she like it very much?
"It's getting late. We have to sail early tomorrow morning."
Zhou Xiaoying said disgustedly:
"I'm not so tough-mouthed now."
Over and over again, Li Duoyu gritted his teeth and said, "My mouth is not tough, but my waist is good. No matter what, I will get up later tomorrow."
"It's amazing. Your waist is so good. Why don't you go drink some more of that medicinal wine? I think there's quite a lot of it. There's a big tank with all kinds of seahorses and ginseng." After hearing this, Li Duoyu was defeated on the spot. After the battle, the wine was found even though it was well hidden.
Li Duoyu is depressed. The medicine works, but his waist can't keep up. In their field of breeding, many people are bent over and their backs are often sore. It seems that if you have time, you still have to Do more waist care.
That night, Li Duoyu fell asleep faster than anyone else. When he woke up the next day, his father and mother had prepared everything they wanted to take to Rongcheng to recognize their ancestors.
When Li Duoyu woke up, everything had been packed. His family had prepared a total of three loads of things.
They are all kinds of seafood and dry goods. In addition to the prawns and blue crabs sold by Li Duoyu, there are also dried oysters, dried fish, dried squid, etc.
After all calculations, these three loads cost almost 3,000 yuan. This amount of money can buy a boat with an engine.
In the past, Lao Li and A Niang would have been heartbroken, but this time they didn't say a word.
They even used the best baskets, all covered with red paper, and even the brown ropes used to carry the burdens were covered with red paper.
My father, second brother, and Li Duoyu all shouldered their own burdens.
Zhou Xiaoying held hands with Xiao Tutu.
Sister Shuihua held the baby, and her brother-in-law Zhang Mingsheng led Zhang Lin and Zhang Yun, and a group of people headed towards the dock.
Originally, not so many people went, and the clan's wives and married daughters were not allowed to go.
Only those who can participate in the ceremony of recognizing their ancestors and being included in the family tree are eligible to go.
But Li Duoyu doesn't think it's necessary to be so formal. Now he calls him "male" all the time. In the future, the general environment will be bad, young people will not be willing to get married and have children, and there is a possibility that the genealogy will be cut off for you.
Li Duoyu felt that even if they couldn't attend the ceremony, it would be good to go watch and get to know their relatives.
I might as well let them all go along with me, just to make it more fun!
When Li Duoyu said this, his second uncle, eldest uncle, and third uncle immediately agreed. After all, what Li Duoyu said now carries considerable weight, whether in the village or in the clan.
In the past, who would have hated you?
It's still the old saying: People speak lightly, but as long as you succeed, others will support you no matter what.
The second sister-in-law also wanted to go, but she was stopped by her mother-in-law, who said that she just had a baby, so she shouldn't run around. It was not a good thing to go to worship ancestors despite being pregnant.
The second sister-in-law also got into trouble: "You've all gone, and I'm the only one left."
"I'm not going either." Chen Huiying had no intention of participating in this event to recognize her ancestors from the beginning, and she didn't even go with her aunt and uncle.
After all, they were born in that era, and they still had some feudal ideas remaining in their bones.
Before leaving, Chen Huiying checked again: "Did you bring the ancestor worship clothes and hat?"
He also specifically warned Li Duoyu: "You are also a person of status now. You must be mature and steady, and don't talk nonsense, you know."
Li Duoyu grinned and said, "I know."
Chen Huiying thought for a while and continued to warn: "Although you are rich now, you can't pretend to be a boss when you spend money outside. It's too lavish."
"Mom, don't worry about this. I'm very stingy. If someone can pay for it, I'm definitely not rushing to pay."
After hearing this, the second sister-in-law Zhu Xiuhua couldn't help but let out a cry. She finally found out the reason why Li Duoyu was stingy.
After a group of people came to the dock carrying loaders, the uncle and the third uncle had already arrived. They also prepared a lot of things. The two families together had four loads of things.
And this time to recognize their ancestors and return to their clan is not a matter for their lineage, but a matter for the entire Li family in Xiasha Village.
Second uncle and others from his lineage have already arrived. There are not many people. Only eight people have come, and they are all men.
They also prepared a lot of things, but most of them were steamed cakes, flour cakes, red turtle cakes, light cakes and the like.
Li Duoyu has always been familiar with his second uncle. After all, his second uncle works on the boat of his uncle and third uncle all year round.
In the family, the second uncle is currently the highest in seniority. As long as he is willing, even if he scolds these juniors, no one would dare to talk back.
It's a pity that the people in the second uncle's lineage are a bit unsatisfactory. The whole family gives people a very undisciplined feeling. At first glance, it looks like they are just messing around.
Li Duoyu originally reserved a few places for his second uncle, so that if they were willing, they could work in his factory.
Unexpectedly, this group of people actually wanted to sell the quota. After that, Li Duoyu had no intention of paying attention to them.
My second uncle was a smoker, and his children and grandchildren all inherited it. The good habits were not learned, but the bad habits were carried forward.
Everyone smokes more cigarettes than anyone else, and it feels like all the money they earn is used to buy cigarettes.
At the beginning, they had no intention of bringing so many people to recognize their ancestors, and they were not even willing to pay tributes and the like.
Later, I heard that some relatives from abroad had returned, and I became more positive.
Li Duoyu also knew very well what they were thinking, and he guessed that they also wanted to be someone who could receive remittance coupons.
But those of them who know the inside story have no such idea at all. If they go to Nanyang and return to China, it would be good if they don't scold them to death and don't cause trouble for them. How can they still give money?
After all, their grandfather helped the wrong people and was implicated, which brought huge trouble to the entire family.
Strictly speaking, my grandfather was kicked out of the house, and he even went so far as to sever ties.
Presumably, this is the reason why the master has never returned to Rongcheng.
To put it bluntly, this trip was said to be to return to Rongcheng to recognize the ancestors, but in fact it was to plead guilty.
This is one of the reasons why Li Duoyu and his uncle and the others have to prepare so many things.
The entire Li family is huge, with more than thirty people in total. When the villagers at the dock learned that they were going back to Rongcheng to recognize their ancestors, they were so envious!
Old Zheng, who has been playing four-color cards all year round, couldn't help but sigh after seeing it: "I finally want to go back and recognize my ancestors."
A young man asked: "Grandpa, are these people with the surname Li on the island really rich men in Rongcheng?"
The old man replied: "Yes, if it hadn't been for that Li Ruixiang, our village would not have grown so big."
The young man asked in surprise: "Could the ancestors of those named Wang really be the long-term workers of their family?"
The old man nodded.
The young man then asked: "Grandpa, where did our family come from? Could it be that we were also rich people before?"
"Our family." The old man sighed: "Our family was originally a farmer, but now we have made progress as a fisherman, so you don't have to think too much."
When his grandson said this, Zheng Daqing fell into a brief memory, and then laughed bitterly.
Due to Li Ruixiang's tolerance, Dandan Island has received many people who fled, and many families have rich stories in their past.
It is not a good thing for some people to recognize their ancestors and return to their clan. Maybe it will only make them more embarrassed. The old man still remembers very clearly that he grew up being poked in the spine. (End of chapter)
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